Thursday, December 30, 2010

A goal is a dream with a deadline

I dont know if I stated it before in my blog but the reason that I do all of what you see if so that one day I can get married. It may not result from one of the exceptional ladies that I write about on the blog but most importantly it will only happen if I am actively dating. Friends have expressed that Im making things too complicated by setting a goal or missing the opportunity by focusing too much on my goal. If you feel this way too...TELL me about it and how you think I could change things so it would be that way.

Other friends expressed how they want to hear more about what we did on the date. You too? Tell me about.

One suggestion I had was to compare the next ten dates to any of the disney princesses. If you think that be great...diga me

Another ambitious suggestion would be to travel to other cities and see how many exceptional people I can meet there in a couple of days. Bad idea?....shoot a suggestion back.

What if I were to make asking all the way to a third date mandatory on my part?

Im all ears...


D & A said...

Rudd, I love what your doing and reading about it. I would like to hear more about what you did on the date and if the girls approve even pictures!! I don't think you should have to take a girl out more than once...what if you really don't feel that spark? Don't feel obligated to ask the girl out again unless you really dig her. That's my little suggestions. =)

Angie said...

I second the motion on pictures! As well as not needing more than one date, b/c that would just lead a girl on if you didn't feel anything for her. I like the princess idea personally and I think going to different cities would definitely make it more adventurous. And if the dates don't turn out as great, then you've at least gotten familiar with a new place. :)

Rudyard Hopkins said...

So how would you suggest going about finding a new dating pool? The original reason for a blog was so that people would read and then suggest friends of theirs to participate. Can I get that to happen?